I always love it when Max gives family
prayer. And last week’s prayer is one I want to share. His prayer brought
warmth and peace with each word he spoke. He said, "Please bless that
angels will open the rays of heaven and come and comfort Grandma." He then
waited a few minutes before speaking again. "And please help those people
who say bad words, to stop saying bad words, and to become mature."
who say bad words, to stop saying bad words, and to become mature."
About two months ago Max asked for the
sensory diet. I was shocked that he had requested it after he told me he didn’t
want it anymore when he was 11.
The sensory diet was given twice a day
from the time he was 3 until 11.
I honestly believe it helped him control
his behavior and calmed him.
Over the summer Max wanted hugs ten times or
more a day and it didn’t matter where or at what time. Times like when I’m in
the middle of cooking or at the store. His way of hugging is to squeeze me so tight I can’t breathe.
Since he has been in school the hugs have decreased
and I believe what has
helped is him carrying a backpack all day at school.
helped is him carrying a backpack all day at school.
The sensory diet that I have been giving
him consist of applying deep pressure against
the skin, combined with stimulating the receptors in the joints, this is
calming for Max. He always takes a deep breath and exhales slowly as I apply my
body weight to his back. Now that he weighs as much as me I need to find
another
form of applying the deep compression to his body.
form of applying the deep compression to his body.
I wish I could borrow
Temple Grandin's squeeze machine.
I think I will research
making him a weighted blanket. I have wondered why this sensory issue has come
back in full force. The blessing is the behaviors have not.
I have asked his
occupational therapist and did research of my own.
Finding it often happens when puberty comes.
Has anyone else had their
child who lives with autism request sensory diet
or hugs when they reached puberty?
or hugs when they reached puberty?
