Ten Eleven Awesome
Reasons Why Max Is Magnificent
1.
He calls me on his bus ride home every day. He
says, “Mom, I want to tell you something. I love you.”
2.
He never tries to lie or cheat. When I ask him a
question he will answer truthfully even when he knows he did something wrong. It’s remarkable.
3.
He follows directions and obeys rules. A week ago, we were driving over
to celebrate his Grandma’s birthday. We had a pot of chili in the
back of the van. Max was asked by his father to unbuckle at the stop light to
quickly check to see if the lid was still on the pot. Max response
was, "Dad I don’t want you to get a ticket and it’s not safe for me to
unbuckle. Do you want me to die dad? I will die if I unbuckle and you will get
a ticket from a policeman. Do you want me to have a funeral dad?” Max’s dad agreed
and that was the end of the story. My other children would have jumped at the opportunity
to unbuckle and check the food. For the next 15 minutes Max kept explaining that he felt
bad that he can’t disobey the rules.
4.
He always has a smile and loves to laugh at whatever
is being said.
5.
He will ask the most unique questions. “Mom what
does nude mean?” After he is told what the definition for nude is. He has a
comeback with… “So when you shower you are nude and when you have clothes on
you are ude.” Everyone got a kick out of it and Max invented a new word. “Ude”.
Max is so cleaver.
6.
Max is affectionate. He will put his arm
around me at church and hold my hand. He loves to give hugs. When he was little
the only way to get him to sleep was to roll him tight in a heavy blanket and
rock him. He loved being held tight.
7.
Every night he likes me to tuck him in bed and
turn the light off. He will wrap his baby blanket (I made the blanket when he was
little) around his head when he is sleeping.
8.
He tries to keep up with practicing the viola and
reading scriptures. We started reading the Doctrine and Covenants a week before
school to give him a head start for seminary. It’s a requirement
for the school year for him to read this book. After school started he came
home and said, “I have to read Joseph Smith History before I can read anything
else.”
9.
When we went to meet the teacher night at school
the math teacher and the seminary teacher said Max loves to talk. I was shocked because when Max was little he was
non-verbal until the age of five. He had no language and was not able to express
anything he needed or wanted. The only way I could figure out what he needed
was when he banged his head on the floor or screamed. What a blessing
it is that he is able to use words and express what he wants and needs. He has come a
long way and now he tells me he loves me. I cried the first time he said Mom.
10.
There are so many other awesome things about
having a teenager with autism and I will continue to share them. Max has been a
source of strength to many people including me. He has been a light and an example
of how I should strive to be. Thank you Max for letting me be your mother.
11.
One last thing…I have been blessed with four other amazing children, two son in laws, one daughter in law and three grandchildren. My magnificent grandson has autism and has been an added strength to our family and to me. Max loves his nephew and enjoys being with him. Max understands that they both have been blessed with learning to cope with
having autism. I asked Max a week ago how does it feel to have autism and he
said, “Mom it’s hard, it’s so hard. People don’t understand me.”
Max at Camp Lo Mia
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